The Concept of a Sakinah Family for Husband-And-Wife Couples Living Separately in Inobonto Village
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A sakinah family can be formed when a husband and wife live in one house. The husband's obligation to earn a living outside the area means that the husband and wife cannot live in the same house. This study was conducted to answer research questions related to the concept of a sakinah family for married couples who live separately, and the impact of married couples who live separately on the formation of a sakinah family. This type of research is field research. Meanwhile, in terms of approach, this study uses a phenomenological approach. The research method used is a qualitative method. Data collection techniques use observation, interviews and documentation. Primary data were obtained from interviews with married couples who live separately. Secondary data were obtained from books and journal articles relevant to the research topic. The collected data were analyzed using an inductive analysis model. This study found several things to answer the research questions. First, the concept of a sakinah family for married couples who live separately is that they must maintain communication between husband and wife, maintain trust, maintain commitment, accept each other, and be honest with each other. Second, the impact of married couples who live separately on the formation of a sakinah family consists of positive and negative impacts. The positive impact is that the family economy increases. Meanwhile, the negative impact is that the husband is not intensive in raising the child, then the wife feels sad and lonely because the husband is not present at home
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